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A HERITAGE-INSPIRED ANNIVERSARY PHOTO SHOOT

17th October 2018

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Most of my avid followers will now be aware of the surprise heritage-inspired photo shoot that Dr. C organised during our recent trip to Italy. If not head on over to the gram for all the spam! It therefore only seems apt that I write about the occasion. After all your personal messages, I know you’re dying to know the story behind the inspiration! Additionally, I’ve been inundated with messages about the photo shoot, so been, as you ask so politely about getting to know more about me and the glorious man I married, I hope I deliver the goods commendably. Additionally this one’s a personal one conveyed directly from the heart of yours truly with the help of Dr C.

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  • A BLOSSOMING ROMANCE
  • HERITAGE
  • PROPOSAL & WEDDING
  • THE PHOTO SHOOT
  • FINAL THOUGHTS
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A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

A BLOSSOMING ROMANCE

Dr C and I first met 14 years ago, however to say it was love at first sight would be a real travesty! There was nothing that I found attractive about this green-eyed, arrogant (he says it’s confident, I think I agree now!) public school boy except that he had good looks, charm and intelligence well and truly lodged on his side! Oh, and he appreciated a mutual dry-humoured joke topped with a thick coating of sarcasm! When we finally decided this friendship had transitioned into a romance and mutually declared that this was the real deal, in terms of the ‘L’ word, it was time to share the news…

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

HERITAGE

We proceeded to make our relationship public in terms of telling our close friends, parents and siblings. I was always mindful that Dr C came from a very middle-class,  affluent background and well, to be frank he was white Caucasian and bought up a Christian! Deep down, I always thought that my parents would be disappointed with my choice of partner because Dr C wasn’t Indian, couldn’t speak the language, didn’t know the culture and would basically not fit in with my family life in terms of  Hindu traditions. But how wrong was I?! After the initial awkward meeting, Dr C was welcomed into the family and soon won over the hearts and souls of those closest to me. If he couldn’t turn up to a family event, he would be the one that was missed the most! Traitors right?! They all forgot the person who introduced them to this guy!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

I do and always will stand true to the belief that love is love and you really can’t help who you will walk this path with! Lucky for me, I come from a family where my dad always put my happiness before anyone or anything.

The thing about loving someone irrespective of if they come from the same background, ethnicity, religion or race as yourself is that it really is all about give and take. You have to really immerse yourself into their life, their culture and invest the time to get to know those they hold so dear to them. It sounds obvious doesn’t it and pertinent to every relationship in life? But you know what, in a inter-racial relationship there are many more external pressures and obstacles waiting to gun you down. The stares, whispers, personal attacks and back-handed comments (yes even in 2018!) cut deep and are even salt-coated at times, especially when they come from those you thought were your friends. But, one thing’s a dead cert, solidarity is paramount.

Learning about the Hindu culture, customs and language is no easy task but Dr C has mastered the art and made it look childs play!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

If you’ve read my ‘A land that a girl knows as Africa’ post you’ll know that my parents originate from East Africa and arrived in the UK during the Idi Amin revolt. They  built up their lives from scratch in a foreign land they knew nothing about. They worked hard to give my brother and I an incredible life filled with everything they never had, from an exceptional education to unconditional support, but most of all love. They taught us that everyone who walks this earth is an equal, kindness and mutual respect is key. Staying true to your roots and each other is the greatest act of humility. Something I understand and resonate with more in adulthood.

PROPOSAL & WEDDING

Dr C asked my dad for my hand in marriage two years before he actually asked me! I can’t figure out if that was because he was trying to plan the perfect proposal or if he just bottled it previously! But when he finally did, it was quite the knock out moment and he became the envy of many ladies out there!  We took a helicopter ride to the base of the Grand Canyon, where he got down on one knee to pop the question. He also made sure I was well fuelled on the champagne picnic so I couldn’t say No! Just for the record, I was always going to say yes…eventually! I have to admit it was pretty special. I joke all the time, how will he ever top this moment?! Maybe he peeked too early but I’m not complaining!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

Our much sought after intimate Hindu wedding ceremony in Bali was cancelled due to unforeseen circumstances but replaced by a civil wedding and Hindu blessing in my family’s local temple, followed by a small evening reception. It was a compromise but the end goal had been achieved, we were married. For those who asked, it was at this point that we vowed to take a honeymoon pretty much every year on our anniversary, but not before ticking off the destinations of New York, Thailand, Bali and Singapore for our actual honeymoon!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

THE PHOTO SHOOT

Now we’re done with the history, back on track with the heritage-inspired photo shoot. For our 8th wedding anniversary, we’d planned to head back to Italy (we seem to go every year!) and include a stay in Florence but concentrate the rest of the stay in different locations on the Amalfi Coast. Dr C had to tie this trip in with seeing his most favourite part of Italy, Tuscany. Being a country boy at heart, he had the idea of combining my Indian and East African heritage with a photo shoot in the Tuscan countryside. He picked the medieval town of Montefioralle, which we visited together previously (for more inspiration refer to  my previous post, exploring Tuscany’s medieval towns) and was one of my most favourites in Tuscany. But this would be no ordinary photo shoot as he wanted us to dress in traditional Indian clothing and that to be black and gold.

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

His vision was to create a timeless classy, elegant set of photos that would capture his dearest part of Italy with some professionally created  images.

You may remember, a post I wrote last year about, discovering destination photography with Flytographer, well it seems Dr C was so impressed with these images that, he picked the same man for the job again – Alberto Sarrantonio.  We had forged quite a good relationship with him and so it seemed best to go with someone that we were familiar with and trusted. Dr C informed me that he had put the plans in motion some months back with recommendations from Alberto on locations in Tuscany.

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

I’ve eluded many times to the fact that I hate being the centre of attention and most of all do not like being in front of the camera. I know this is strange to believe considering firstly, my dad was a photographer and took thousands of photos of me throughout my life; secondly, I have a blog! Anyway it’s fact! I have to admit I’m never going to be that comfortable in front of the camera but I think Alberto fulfilled Dr C ‘s brief perfectly. He’s truly exceptional at what he does. Believe me, I’m not just singing his praises because I know him!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

Alberto seems to have the ability to create a relaxed environment, provide the right amount of humour to de-fluster a situation and obviously doesn’t make you do anything you don’t want to (no awkward poses or body extensions!) You know my feelings on public displays of affection! My only specifications were no snogging, kissing or ‘get a room’ type situation and of course cheesy is just vomit-inducing to look back on in years to come! I have to say all these were respected in full!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

A couple of days before we left for Florence, Dr C told me we were having this photo shoot and that I’d be wearing Indian clothes of his choice, which I was relieved were actually very classy. But that is all I knew. I wasn’t aware of the location or any other details apart from who the photographer was. Dr C did have specific things in mind for the session and these were that in order to fit in with the heritage theme, he wanted details of the outfits, which symbolise the craftsmanship of Indian artistry, as well as specific back drops featuring vineyards and the stoned wall architecture of Montefioralle.

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

FINAL THOUGHTS

If you’ve ever pondered on the thought of having a photo shoot, I have to say it’s a great way to capture memories however, I will say you have to be really into it and commit yourself for that time. Take the time to think about location, what you want to portray, the feelings you want to capture of the moment, but most of all be realistic in terms of expectations of the session, remember photographers are not magicians. If I quote a certain photographer, you ARE supposed to enjoy it!!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

I’m not really one for surprises however I guess this one didn’t turn out so bad after all! For all you ladies out there who sent me messages of Dr C being the perfect gent and me being so very lucky to be married to him…I just want to say, he is a gent and of course he has exceptional taste, he married me! Lets just keep the husband-praise between us for now!

It seems a husband and a great photographer thousands of miles away put a fantastic plan together and succeeded for the most part – I’ll let them off for the bad car sickness, which may require more attention, if any re-attempts are in the pipeline!!

A Heritage-Inspired Anniversary Photo Shoot

Anyway less of the coma-provoking waffle from me, feel free to tell me what you thought of the photos in the comments below. No pressure but Dr C picked them!

 

Would you consider a photo shoot to mark a special occasion or to indulge in some great memories? If it’s for you then I know just the man…

 

Photography: Alberto Sarrantonio, Florence. Italy

Outfits: Nims Boutique, Leicester. UK

Jewellery: Rituals Art Jewellery, Leicester. UK

 

 

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Bejal

I’m Bejal aka Be, an ex-scientist turned travel writer and digital content creator. I have travelled to 6 continents, visited 70 plus countries, including an around the world trip, making me quite the expert in crafting intricate itineraries. I love to discover some of the world's more remote destinations and stay in some incredible hidden location eco-hotels. My aim is to transport you, my audience, to inspirational and cultural global spots that are less visited and allow you to see the 'real' and authentic side of destinations through detailed guides with a sprinkling of luxury. The spotlight is on eco-friendly responsible experiential travel with lifelong memories.

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  • ndsouza2006
    17th October 2018

    This is so beautiful and totally understand the whole family thing. So nice Will fits right in. The photo shoot looks really good and the photographer sure has done an excellent job. A lovely romantic read x

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    • Bejal
      ndsouza2006
      17th October 2018

      Thankyou Neha. Oh yes Alberto has done a great job, very talented man that he is. Thanks for reading as always, means a lot x

      Reply
  • the Curious Pixie
    17th October 2018

    I love the whole romance of this! The attention to detail from Dr C deserves a round of applause. Here’s to many more yearly honeymoons darling xx

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    • Bejal
      the Curious Pixie
      17th October 2018

      Ahh thankyou Sima for your kind words. Yes he got many rounds of applause lovely xx

      Reply
  • AbbeyLouisaRose
    17th October 2018

    These photos are truly gorgeous, and how wonderful of Dr C to organise the whole thing! I must say that he did a great job, as did your photographer! All of your shots look so relaxed and loving without being PDA! It makes me so happy to hear that Dr C fits in so well with your family as well and that proposal – wow! Wishing you another very happy year of marriage!

    Abbey xxx

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    • Bejal
      AbbeyLouisaRose
      17th October 2018

      Thankyou so much Abbey! All credit to the photographer! Haha I was really mindful about the PDA, almost so much so it became a bit of an issue, but so glad it looks natural! Yeah Dr C’s a keeper, it was a truly amazing proposal! Thanks for your lovely comment xx

      Reply
  • Jaini
    17th October 2018

    This is INCREDIBLE 🙂 Loved this xoxo

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    • Bejal
      Jaini
      17th October 2018

      Thankyou Jaini for always being so lovely xx

      Reply
  • Zee
    17th October 2018

    What an incredible post and more so what a true gentleman you have married. There are not many men out there who fully embrace another culture but it looks like Dr C was part of your family from the get go!

    Another beautifully written post which totally immersed me into the idyllic photo shoot you had. Also it’s somewhat restored my faith in finding a true gentleman (hopefully) x x

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    • Bejal
      Zee
      17th October 2018

      Thankyou Zee, so glad you enjoyed reading it as personal ones are so difficult to write. Dr C is a gentleman and you will find yours one day soon. You are a beautiful person inside and out and you will meet your prince charming in due course! I have to admit, no photo shoot will be idyllic for me due to my awkwardness in front of the camera however everything about teh surroundings was pretty idyllic! Thankyou as always for your lovely comment xx

      Reply
  • Laura
    17th October 2018

    Reading this made me so emotional! Such beautiful pictures and memories to cherish x

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    • Bejal
      Laura
      17th October 2018

      Awww Laura, you’re such a romantic. Yes don’t photos just make the best memories? Will forever remember Montefiralle with these photos!

      Reply
  • Louise
    18th October 2018

    I loved everything about this blog post and I swallowed every word just to want more of your beautiful story! It’s funny how we have an idea of who we will end up marrying- and then it turns out that you end up with someone completely different! (Well I’m not married yet, but I am
    Certainly in a relationship that I expect will last until the very end of this life)
    I love your writing and I love your photos! <3
    Louise X

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    • Bejal
      Louise
      19th October 2018

      Oh yes I totally agree with you Louise, the reality is so much different from the idea you have in your head. You really can’t help who you fall in love with! Thanks so much for your kind comments and am so glad you enjoyed reading the post. xx

      Reply
  • Seetal (SavlaFaire)
    25th October 2018

    What a beautiful post, and I just love the idea of a shoot to capture your one of your favourite spots! His outfit choice is spot on as well – very classic look which tunes into your Indian roots and works with the Italian scenery. As for having an idea of who you were going to marry, I expected to be with a French guy and living life in France as I never wanted to marry an Indian, yet I’ve been married to one for a decade now! Funny how life turns out… xx

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    • Bejal
      Seetal (SavlaFaire)
      27th October 2018

      Thankyou Seetal. It took quite a while to write as it’s always hard when it’s personal.Yes he did well on the outfits! Clearly knows me so well. Haha, yes it really is funny how things pan out when you’re a grown up xx

      Reply
  • rhubarbpoetryanddiary
    31st October 2018

    Belated wishes for your wedding anniversary.
    What a magical post. It sings like an opera, dances like a ballet and yet you still manage to encompass the humour and reality of marriage.
    I hope you have many more years to come and that Dr C got to keep those slippers!

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    • Bejal
      rhubarbpoetryanddiary
      31st October 2018

      Thankyou so much Dodi for your kind words. So glad you enjoyed the read and yes of course Dr C has those beautiful slippers stored safely in his wardrobe!

      Reply
  • fashraveldon
    18th November 2018

    This is such a sweet and emotional post. How lovely for him to organise this and it turned out so well. I hope you’ve printed these photos to put on your photo album. It’s definitely something to cherish and always recall the memories by. I also love the slipper choice, he’s got great taste haha.

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    • Bejal
      fashraveldon
      18th November 2018

      Thankyou Sarah for your kind words. I haven’t actually framed the photos yet but I will do. Dr C did a very good job so now he’s hired for future trip planning for sure! Oh yes of course he has great taste, he married me!! Lol!

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